Day 3 - Putting the other person first

Day 3 is about the battle with selfishness that all humans encounter.

The authors make the point that "true love looks for ways to say 'yes'". They talk about how love wants to do good for the other person and is not always pursing her own desires/needs/etc.

The challenge for the day is to do something special for your spouse that shows you were thinking about him today. The idea being that whatever you invest your time, attention and $ into becomes important to you.

The challenge is also to continue to refrain from negative comments (apparently this is a killer for everyone so it's added to each day's challenge).

Of Father, empower me to refrain from negative comments today. Thank You for Your power. Show me something I can do for John today to show that I am thinking about him. Thank You Father that You have good plans for our marriage.